IMO "judgement" of a person carries a sense of finality and should be separated from one's "expectation" of a person. I think it's okay to let your observation

IMO "judgement" of a person carries a sense of finality and should be separated from one's "expectation" of a person. I think it's okay to let your observations of someone guide your expectations of them so long as you are open to being wrong and do not use those expectations as justification for mistreating someone.