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Both are a problem. I should not conflate the two. I agree. Asking questions which are normal in my own field resulted in stonewalling and obvious distress. Th
by hy555 1y ago
Both are a problem. I should not conflate the two.
I agree. Asking questions which are normal in my own field resulted in stonewalling and obvious distress. The worst thing being this leading to the end of what was a good relationship.
- neilv 1y agoIf the allegation is true, hopefully your friend speaks up. If not, you might consider whether you have actionable information yourself, any professional obligations you have (e.g., if you work in science/health/safety yourself), any societal obligations, whether reporting the allegation would be betraying a trust, and what the calculus is there.