That is very true, but I also see it as being the lesser of two evils. I, personally, would much rather like the idea that if I work towards something with goal

That is very true, but I also see it as being the lesser of two evils. I, personally, would much rather like the idea that if I work towards something with goals, hard-work, etc. that I can be the rule. Instead of just giving up before even trying because "I think I'll always just be an exception". If you follow what I mean? I guess it's somewhat of a catch 22.