You can't deal with how bad something feels if you have uncontrollable crippling sensations about it. Trauma does not let you mature, learn from experience or g

You can't deal with how bad something feels if you have uncontrollable crippling sensations about it. Trauma does not let you mature, learn from experience or grow up. You can't walk it off. If you try to "man up", it comes back even stronger in terms of attention deficit, bouts of anger and OCB. It is very hard to convince people that the sensations trauma causes are real. Especially to people with a hero complex.