Most adults, I've observed, don't even particularly like their partner. I think we just become so comfortable and okay with not being happy that we can't ident

Most adults, I've observed, don't even particularly like their partner. I think we just become so comfortable and okay with not being happy that we can't identify we're not happy. Everything becomes a routine, everything is automatic. We maintain systems that ultimately don't benefit us because we're terrified of what would happen otherwise.