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I'm not, but I see how it sounded that way. I'm just picky lately. I can relate to most people on at least something, and can make friends easily. I don't strug
by 90s_dev 1y ago
I'm not, but I see how it sounded that way. I'm just picky lately. I can relate to most people on at least something, and can make friends easily. I don't struggle with that. I just don't care about those interests enough to put the effort in lately, and I have few circumstances tying me to specific people anymore (neighbors, coworkers, family, etc). Maybe it's because of where I am in life, and my current responsibilities. [edit] For example, when it seems like you're near the end of your life, you think much more about bigger picture things, like your own mortality, the past and future, what mark you did or didn't leave on the world, love, truth, beauty, goodness, and a lot of heavy things that people generally don't want to talk or think about when they're in their prime and want to enjoy it.
- manmal 1y agoI think community is a (the?) source of joy, and it‘s unfortunate you‘re having these issues. And I wouldn’t just blame it on being picky, there could be root causes for this that are not obvious - like burnout, other mental issues, brain health issues. Not all can be fixed of course.
- 90s_dev 1y agoI'm just old.