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Sorry, that doesn't make much sense.

• betterThanTexas 2y ago
  Which part is the antecedent of "that" here? I made three distinct claims. Happy to explain more if you clue me in to what doesn't make sense.
  • WalterBright 2y ago
    I don't get how one person ruins my life by changing my mind.
    • betterThanTexas 2y ago
      Well, if you've devoted a significant part of your life to neurotically analyzing your own actions in order to comply with a certain set of values, changing one of those values will naturally imply reevaluating of much of your life. I think realistic expectations of yourself for not living up to your own values is important to maintain basic resilience. Not to mention, we all have behavior that's fundamentally contradictory to our values. At least, IMO.
      • WalterBright 2y ago
        Not at all. It's more like finding bugs, fixing bugs. It would be foolish to not course-correct when realizing you're making a mistake.