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I don't know what's going on in your specific case but: 1. It's never out of time, for sure. If you want to make a specific change, study the pros/cons and dec
by ladyanita22 1y ago
I don't know what's going on in your specific case but:
1. It's never out of time, for sure. If you want to make a specific change, study the pros/cons and decide whether to do it or not! But you can for sure make the change you want to.
2. Don't fall into the trap of idealizing a life you don't have. The grass is significantly less green than you might think at the other side of the fence.
- treis 1y agoI don't think this helps as much as you may think it does. Some things can't be undone once done and they make people's lives much worse.
- ladyanita22 1y agoIt may, or may not sound convincing. It's true that some things cannot be undone, and we may feel regret or remorse for them. Still, there's a path for healing and liberation by understanding under which circumstances and which assumptions you took that decission, understanding that sometimes life is hard, and that you're worth it. I don't know this specific case though, and I guess neither do you. If the parent comment wants to come back with some details, I'll reflect on it.