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You allowed to have boundaries even if there's a few assholes who won't respect them
by procaryote 1y ago
You allowed to have boundaries even if there's a few assholes who won't respect them
- accrual 1y agoIn this example RMS made a request to the audience. A boundary would be something like "if you post photos of me to Facebook, you won't be invited to my conferences" or "if you do X, I won't interact with you". Might be difficult to enforce, but that's on the person making the boundary.
- reverendsteveii 1y agoThat's the defining feature of a boundary: you don't actually tell people what to do. You just tell them what you'll do. "Don't talk to me like that" is an ask, "Talk to me like that again and I'll leave" is a boundary.
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