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Downvoted because your posts are unnecessarily hostile to people who are posting innocent questions/observations.
by hackinthebochs 14y ago
Downvoted because your posts are unnecessarily hostile to people who are posting innocent questions/observations.
- illuminate 14y agoHostile I am, but constructively so. They should not feel so entitled to have everyone fall for them, simply because they "deserve" to be loved. They (being anyone who thinks "women love jerks" is an acceptable thing to say undigested) need to step way back and think about why they find themselves in this position without blaming women for not wanting them as they are.
- Achshar 14y agoI have said this in another comment. [edit: I see you are the same person :)] I did say I have seen it work, but that does not mean I envy them. I am not saying weather something is right or wrong. I am just putting forward what I have seen and trying to make sense of it. They need to step way back and think about why they find themselves in this position without blaming women for not wanting them as they are. The point I was trying to make is that people are expected to adhere to "rules" that either don't exist or not well defined and hence subject to change from person to person. Generalizing is not an option because such thing are usually complicated and the accused might not have don't it intentionally. It is sometimes simply not clear where to draw the line.