I think you're entirely wrong. I didn't read it that way at all. In fact there are humans in the culture novels who choose not to live in the typical way (eg. G

I think you're entirely wrong. I didn't read it that way at all. In fact there are humans in the culture novels who choose not to live in the typical way (eg. Genar-Hofoen one who goes to live amongst the Affront). I think they have no less agency than we do today, rather more.