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It is up to you to interpret it as a “signal to move on“ or not. You may be right, but you may also be totally wrong with your interpretation. It’s not a defini
by 47282847 1y ago
It is up to you to interpret it as a “signal to move on“ or not. You may be right, but you may also be totally wrong with your interpretation. It’s not a definitive signal nor means they are not “expressing interest“. You may simply not see their way of expressing interest.
- creer 1y agoWe decide (interpret) based on the information we get. Those are the breaks. Of course we may be wrong. We may be wrong either way. The question might be what can we do to get a better signal. And everyone here would love suggestions.
- 47282847 1y agoShare your thoughts. Ask and you will know. Or don’t, and move on, knowing that you don’t know, without the need to judge the other. There is no reason to “drive yourself crazy“ with your thoughts. We all make assumptions, and then we can communicate about them to validate. It is turning your assumptions into insinuation without actually giving the other the benefit of the doubt that creates communication mismatch, not the assumption itself. (“Their behavior must mean that they are not interested, and the only way to address this requires them to adopt to what is right for me.“)