This conundrum of generations having much of their wealth stored in their home is part of the real problem around housing in general. This is why we decided to

This conundrum of generations having much of their wealth stored in their home is part of the real problem around housing in general. This is why we decided to rent out our properties after evaluating our situation and understanding that it made more sense to generate consistent profits off real estate in the form of rental income than incur all the liabilities of simply buying and living in one. I personally think it should be one or the other - you either are buying real estate as an investment vehicle (to flip, rent, speculatively build etc) or buying it to live in, but in which point you don't treat it as a primary store of wealth - but unfortunately home ownership in the US is structured that if you buy and live in a home, you inevitably end up with it being treated as both a store of wealth and a home in which you live, and you're constantly tugging between the two things which have very different considerations. I think a land value tax and liberal zoning laws would go a long way to fixing some of this, but is another discussion entirely