I don't think being abused has anything to do with being in software. Just my experience and opinion though. I think you will both find and wont find you are

I don't think being abused has anything to do with being in software. Just my experience and opinion though. I think you will both find and wont find you are abused in most lines of work. Seems like a lot more work to change industries (with probably a similar risk of being abused) than to just find a software position where you aren't being abused IMO.