> which aren't great odds For others, here's the comment: This YouGov poll, sourced at the end, notes that 9% of the male population is interested in comple

> which aren't great odds For others, here's the comment: This YouGov poll, sourced at the end, notes that 9% of the male population is interested in complete nonmonogamy. US Government Statistics note that males that make >$200k/year comprise approximately 5% of the population. A Pew Research poll states that 51% of young men desire children. Approximately 10% of the population is males ages 22-40, which is a wider age range than I think she would be interested in, but I'm trying to make the numbers as generous as possible. Using a normal distribution curve, approximately 25% of the population will have an attractiveness of >5.9. I selected a generous 10% of the remaining population as being interesting enough for her to engage with on an intellectual level. 0.09 * 0.05 * 0.51 * 0.25 * 0.10 * 0.10 0.00057% 5.7 per million people There are 4.6 million people in the San Francisco metro area I did a similar calculation for a friend who had a few "reasonable" expectations but the odds were less than 1 in 10 billion.