> The value shift I mentioned earlier affects the extent to which we prioritize one or the other You need resources to raise kids. So the discussion about valu

> The value shift I mentioned earlier affects the extent to which we prioritize one or the other You need resources to raise kids. So the discussion about values is beside the point in a society where in a couple both people are expected to work to have a normal life. In our society any system that values family is fighting the economy. Best of luck with that.