I would probably ask them to read What You'll Wish You'd Known (http://www.paulgraham.com/hs.html http://www.paulgraham.com/hs.html). I like the analogy of stay

I would probably ask them to read What You'll Wish You'd Known (http://www.paulgraham.com/hs.html http://www.paulgraham.com/hs.html). I like the analogy of staying upwind because it provides you more options when the time comes that you find out what you want to do.