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> For making healthcare decisions, durable power attorney and a medical proxy should be sufficient for unmarried couples. Should be isn't is. PoA aren't trivia
by WarOnPrivacy 2y ago
> For making healthcare decisions, durable power attorney and a medical proxy should be sufficient for unmarried couples.
Should be isn't is. PoA aren't trivially recognized in the way a marriage is. If you have to interact with more than a couple of services you ought to expect friction.
A local medical provider might not be familiar with a PoA but that can be worked out. However, bureaucracies like insurance providers can be staffed with people whose trainings never mentioned PoA but did extensively cover HIPAA compliance (and penalties).
In caring for my spouse, there were times that I needed all of the above: spousehood + PoA + verbal auth from spouse.
source: legal assistant, probate
source: 25yr as caregiver for disabled spouse (+PoA)
- toomuchtodo 2y agoI can only recommend having an attorney you can call who will threaten those who won’t respect the legal authority of the documents. People are always the weakest link unfortunately. Lawyer. Passport. Locksmith. Gun. (A Talk About Risk and Preparedness) [video] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=33509164 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=33509164 (I hold POA and medical proxies for people who need someone they can trust to assert their medical decisions and wishes for them when they are unable to)
- sudoshred 2y agoThe entire legal system is essentially based on interpersonal credibility.