My language was anything but extreme. I would make the case based on your response that you would jump to some assumptions: > You don’t consider the two obvi

My language was anything but extreme. I would make the case based on your response that you would jump to some assumptions: > You don’t consider the two obvious answers, in that they see it differently or they have higher priorities, and are using extreme language. Rather than asking the question. It's deeply curious how making assumptions instead of asking questions is called out as incurious. If you were motivated to inquire, how would you approach it?