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Maybe you should rename your "lifetime duo" to "lifetime trio"?
by supermatt 2y ago
Maybe you should rename your "lifetime duo" to "lifetime trio"?
- supermatt 2y ago[flagged]
- altairprime 2y agoPerhaps it’s your phrasing? To use a particularly obnoxious phrasing from Wired Magazine as demonstration of how the tone of feedback can influence how it’s perceived: Tired: “maybe you should rename X to Y”; lacks an explanation of why, ‘maybe’ is often sneering / condescending in this usage, assumes that proposed solution is correct Wired: “fyi there’s a copy error on the site: X doesn’t match Z, should it be Y?”; explains the problem, asks if theorized solution is correct, makes proposing a solution optional The chosen example tone is not intended as a reflection or judgment of you in any regard, but the necessity of this disclaimer supports my point.
- supermatt 2y agoIts interesting how we can both infer the opposite from our statements. Your start of "there’s a copy error on the site" would seem to me to be more condescending as it assumes that it is a mistake, whereas I merely suggest that it is. I don't really mind the downvotes, just pointing out how stupid they are. I just think of them as cowardly anonymous idiots and go about my (otherwise awesome) day.
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