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I absolutely LOVE stackoverflow. I've been working on my own for about 9 months, and without SO, there would have been zero chance I would be able to make any

I absolutely LOVE stackoverflow. I've been working on my own for about 9 months, and without SO, there would have been zero chance I would be able to make any progress. But I do agree about the criticism of the moderators. I also think that there is almost a "Stanford Prison Experiment" level of power-wielding amongst some of the mods. There are examples of someone/me asking a question, and then someone closing it as a dupe, when in fact the question isn't a dupe. It might be superficially similar, but the mods don't take enough time to actually read the question and see if it's a dupe or not. And the rest of us are powerless to do anything about it. But this is the minority of cases for me. For the most part, SO is a completely invaluable tool, and I love it immensely. I think removing "Thanks" is a bit too abrasive. Maybe 10+ years ago, the NYC subway system tried getting ticketing agents to stop saying "Thanks" because they thought it would make things more efficient, and all it did was piss off the passengers. It's trivial, but there has to be a base level of civility between participants. I get that upvoting is "Thanks", but we're still humans (at this point), and trying to make communication more "efficient" by removing natural human responses makes it too terse, and almost insulting sometimes. It's a small thing, and I think it's better to just leave it in, because it's nice to say "thanks".

cruise02 14y ago
> There are examples... Where are these examples? This is the internet. Please provide links. > And the rest of us are powerless to do anything about it. That's simply not true. Stack Exchange provides a Meta site where you can take up issues with the entire community. http://meta.stackoverflow.com/ http://meta.stackoverflow.com/ You can also email the company. They do read your emails. As for removing "thanks," we really don't recommend doing that if it's the only thing you're going to change. However, it's not supposed to be included, so removing it while making other edits is encouraged.
- yarrel 14y ago
  Enforced rudeness is weird.
  - cruise02 14y ago
    I've heard this complaint before, and I kind of understand where it comes from, but removing politeness isn't the same as rudeness. I'm not replacing "thanks" with "suck it." I'm just removing "thanks." It really doesn't belong where most people put it (as part of a question or posted separately as an answer).
- steve8918 14y ago
  I didn't know the meta.stackoverflow.com site existed. They should probably make note of it when someone's question gets closed, so that the person asking the question knows they can dispute it. There isn't any indication from the FAQ that you can dispute things like questions being closed by posting to the meta site. Here's an example of my question that was closed on serverfault: http://serverfault.com/questions/342191/performance-of-sql-server-decreases-as-i-add-more-vcpus-on-esxi-5 http://serverfault.com/questions/342191/performance-of-sql-s... I specifically asked why my throughout for my database was more than doubling when I decreased the number of vCPUs from 4 to 1. And it was closed as an "exact dupe" of a question asking about how to optimize a VM's performance. There's nothing to optimize in my situation, I had more physical cores than vCPUs, so there was no over-allocation. I get that obviously there must be some contention between the vCPUs, but to double the performance by dropping to a single vCPU? I wouldn't see that type of performance hit on a physical system otherwise multi-process databases wouldn't exist. I had another question that was arbitrarily closed as a dupe, but I made a comment disputing it, and by some small miracle, the mod removed the dupe status. I can't remember which other question it was at this point since it was modified to remove my comment and the closing. The point is that there is no way to flag the question as being under dispute, and if the moderator decided not to do anything about it, then I couldn't do anything (except post to meta which I just learned today). EDIT: I posted the wrong link, and just corrected it now.
  - 3JPLW 14y ago
    Ha! A user that's not logged in can't even get to your ServerFault link. They're silently redirected to the duplicate. Even more frustrating (to you, I imagine) is that your question was closed unilaterally by a moderator -- the same moderator that asked the question that it's redirecting to.
- mindcrime 14y ago
  > They do read your emails. And then promptly ignore them. Yes, that's beneficial. Stack Overflow is a great site in very many ways, but these criticism are well founded and they do make it less than what it could be. But face it, Joel and Jeff, et al. have their minds made up about how things work and they aren't terribly interested in what any of us think. That is, of course, their right, since it's their site. But let's not pretend that they're actually interested in, or responsive to, community feedback.
  - cruise02 14y ago
    There are over 5000 status-completed posts on Meta. http://meta.stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/status-completed http://meta.stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/status-comple... Your argument that they're not responsive to community feedback would appear to be invalid.
    - mindcrime 14y ago
      Those are mostly bug-fixes and feature requests, though. That's not really what I was talking about. When it comes to policy issues (like this whole point about "enforced rudeness") or anything procedural, they really seem to have their minds pretty well made up from what I've seen. I'm not going to waste time chasing up links and what-not, but when I've seen Joel or Jeff respond to that sort of thing, the tone has universally been something like "this is the way we do things here, deal with it." And that's if they decide to grace one with a reply at all.
      - cruise02 14y ago
        I'm not sure why anyone would listen to you when you make a sweeping accusation and refuse to back it up with a link or evidence of any kind.
        mindcrime 14y ago
        I'm not sure why anyone would listen to you when you make a sweeping accusation and refuse to back it up with a link or evidence of any kind. Neither am I. Nor do I particularly care. You're free to believe what you want to believe. This isn't a formal debate and I don't owe you, or anybody else, links, citations or anything else.
- smackfu 14y ago
  Of course, this ends up very similar to wikipedia, where you have to learn how to complain correctly, or the Meta post also gets closed as a duplicate.
  - cruise02 14y ago
    Yes, that's going to be true anywhere. There are 30,000 posts on Meta already, so it's a good idea to search first. Valid complaints are paid attention though.
    - smackfu 14y ago
      It's a hard problem though. Your average user is going to use the "meta" site very rarely, while the power users are going to live in it.
- ericb 14y ago
  > Stack Exchange provides a Meta site where you can take up issues with the entire community. I tried to merely ask why an item that was very much in a gray area was closed without a reason given more than a year after I posted it and accepted an answer. The Meta "police" were mostly unhelpful, provided answers without actually reading the item in question, and did down-vote driveby's on the question even though it was already closed at that point! A couple mods were nice, but overall it was like trying to ask for a complaint form in a police office: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8v7lF5ttlQ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8v7lF5ttlQ
- enraged_camel 14y ago
  You still have not provided a rational explanation as to why removing "thanks" is encouraged.
  - cruise02 14y ago
    http://meta.stackoverflow.com/q/2950/1288 http://meta.stackoverflow.com/q/2950/1288
    - enraged_camel 14y ago
      Those reasons are terrible, and are easily refuted. From reading the discussion as a whole, theLet's go over them one by one. >>It will leave even less room in the question preview so that we have more difficulty gauging what a question consists of by reading the preview.<< Sounds like it can be easily solved by changing the preview algorithm to filter out words like "Hello" and "Thanks". >>It takes time to read and parse through those questions when I am trying to spend my time more efficiently reading through the actual question and figuring out how to appropriately answer it. If I have to start reading all the little side comments and snarky humor inserted in there it detracts from the overall message.<< I can understand about the side comments and snarky humor. But how long does it take to read the word "thanks," exactly? >>If this is supposed to be a website which is servicing more than just the primary author, we need to think about how we construct messages so that they appear more clearly to those searching on google for questions that match their own. If I am looking for a solution for question X, I want to find someone who had the same problem, not their short autobiography and formalities before getting to that actual question.<< Again, editing autobiographies and pitiful attempts at rumor is totally fine. Editing out "thanks" however changes the tone of the post, and the tone of the site in general. When reading a question, it is important to keep in mind that there is a human on the other hand. Having salutations and thanks in there helps convey this.
sirtaptap 14y ago
Taking "thanks" out of a conversation between exactly two people is very different. It's very personal and can easily be seen as rude. But SO isn't that; don't treat it like that. SO questions may well be read by thousands of people. The "thanks" is useless to 99% of them. It's like signatures. Sure it seems neat when you do it once. But when literally thousands of people have to read it on thousands of posts...please stop!
- bangbang 14y ago
  When someone takes the time to help me with a problem. I will thank them. SO is powered by people and people appreciate appreciation.
  - Pfhreak 14y ago
    And the mechanism for appreciation on Stack Overflow is not thanks. It's +1 votes and selected answers. Those appreciate mechanisms drive the site and ensure the person who helped you helps many other people.
    - gte910h 14y ago
      And there is no reason to remove that social lubrication because you're of a different opinion. If they're not doing the +1 and selected answer, then tell them to, but don't stop them from being decent human beings as well, even if you'd prefer the world that way.
  - 3JPLW 14y ago
    I give my thanks through comments. I think that makes sense given their model -- the question and answer are the straightforward facts about the problem intended for future googlers and posterity. The comments are little meta-data intended for the asker and answerers.
  - finnw 14y ago
    If someone posts a helpful answer to your question, it's fine to say "thanks" in a comment (and the mods will not remove that.)

cruise02 14y ago

> There are examples... Where are these examples? This is the internet. Please provide links. > And the rest of us are powerless to do anything about it. That's simply not true. Stack Exchange provides a Meta site where you can take up issues with the entire community. http://meta.stackoverflow.com/ http://meta.stackoverflow.com/ You can also email the company. They do read your emails. As for removing "thanks," we really don't recommend doing that if it's the only thing you're going to change. However, it's not supposed to be included, so removing it while making other edits is encouraged.

yarrel 14y ago
Enforced rudeness is weird.
- cruise02 14y ago
  I've heard this complaint before, and I kind of understand where it comes from, but removing politeness isn't the same as rudeness. I'm not replacing "thanks" with "suck it." I'm just removing "thanks." It really doesn't belong where most people put it (as part of a question or posted separately as an answer).
steve8918 14y ago
I didn't know the meta.stackoverflow.com site existed. They should probably make note of it when someone's question gets closed, so that the person asking the question knows they can dispute it. There isn't any indication from the FAQ that you can dispute things like questions being closed by posting to the meta site. Here's an example of my question that was closed on serverfault: http://serverfault.com/questions/342191/performance-of-sql-server-decreases-as-i-add-more-vcpus-on-esxi-5 http://serverfault.com/questions/342191/performance-of-sql-s... I specifically asked why my throughout for my database was more than doubling when I decreased the number of vCPUs from 4 to 1. And it was closed as an "exact dupe" of a question asking about how to optimize a VM's performance. There's nothing to optimize in my situation, I had more physical cores than vCPUs, so there was no over-allocation. I get that obviously there must be some contention between the vCPUs, but to double the performance by dropping to a single vCPU? I wouldn't see that type of performance hit on a physical system otherwise multi-process databases wouldn't exist. I had another question that was arbitrarily closed as a dupe, but I made a comment disputing it, and by some small miracle, the mod removed the dupe status. I can't remember which other question it was at this point since it was modified to remove my comment and the closing. The point is that there is no way to flag the question as being under dispute, and if the moderator decided not to do anything about it, then I couldn't do anything (except post to meta which I just learned today). EDIT: I posted the wrong link, and just corrected it now.
- 3JPLW 14y ago
  Ha! A user that's not logged in can't even get to your ServerFault link. They're silently redirected to the duplicate. Even more frustrating (to you, I imagine) is that your question was closed unilaterally by a moderator -- the same moderator that asked the question that it's redirecting to.
mindcrime 14y ago
> They do read your emails. And then promptly ignore them. Yes, that's beneficial. Stack Overflow is a great site in very many ways, but these criticism are well founded and they do make it less than what it could be. But face it, Joel and Jeff, et al. have their minds made up about how things work and they aren't terribly interested in what any of us think. That is, of course, their right, since it's their site. But let's not pretend that they're actually interested in, or responsive to, community feedback.
- cruise02 14y ago
  There are over 5000 status-completed posts on Meta. http://meta.stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/status-completed http://meta.stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/status-comple... Your argument that they're not responsive to community feedback would appear to be invalid.
  - mindcrime 14y ago
    Those are mostly bug-fixes and feature requests, though. That's not really what I was talking about. When it comes to policy issues (like this whole point about "enforced rudeness") or anything procedural, they really seem to have their minds pretty well made up from what I've seen. I'm not going to waste time chasing up links and what-not, but when I've seen Joel or Jeff respond to that sort of thing, the tone has universally been something like "this is the way we do things here, deal with it." And that's if they decide to grace one with a reply at all.
    - cruise02 14y ago
      I'm not sure why anyone would listen to you when you make a sweeping accusation and refuse to back it up with a link or evidence of any kind.
      - mindcrime 14y ago
        I'm not sure why anyone would listen to you when you make a sweeping accusation and refuse to back it up with a link or evidence of any kind. Neither am I. Nor do I particularly care. You're free to believe what you want to believe. This isn't a formal debate and I don't owe you, or anybody else, links, citations or anything else.
smackfu 14y ago
Of course, this ends up very similar to wikipedia, where you have to learn how to complain correctly, or the Meta post also gets closed as a duplicate.
- cruise02 14y ago
  Yes, that's going to be true anywhere. There are 30,000 posts on Meta already, so it's a good idea to search first. Valid complaints are paid attention though.
  - smackfu 14y ago
    It's a hard problem though. Your average user is going to use the "meta" site very rarely, while the power users are going to live in it.
ericb 14y ago
> Stack Exchange provides a Meta site where you can take up issues with the entire community. I tried to merely ask why an item that was very much in a gray area was closed without a reason given more than a year after I posted it and accepted an answer. The Meta "police" were mostly unhelpful, provided answers without actually reading the item in question, and did down-vote driveby's on the question even though it was already closed at that point! A couple mods were nice, but overall it was like trying to ask for a complaint form in a police office: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8v7lF5ttlQ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8v7lF5ttlQ
enraged_camel 14y ago
You still have not provided a rational explanation as to why removing "thanks" is encouraged.
- cruise02 14y ago
  http://meta.stackoverflow.com/q/2950/1288 http://meta.stackoverflow.com/q/2950/1288
  - enraged_camel 14y ago
    Those reasons are terrible, and are easily refuted. From reading the discussion as a whole, theLet's go over them one by one. >>It will leave even less room in the question preview so that we have more difficulty gauging what a question consists of by reading the preview.<< Sounds like it can be easily solved by changing the preview algorithm to filter out words like "Hello" and "Thanks". >>It takes time to read and parse through those questions when I am trying to spend my time more efficiently reading through the actual question and figuring out how to appropriately answer it. If I have to start reading all the little side comments and snarky humor inserted in there it detracts from the overall message.<< I can understand about the side comments and snarky humor. But how long does it take to read the word "thanks," exactly? >>If this is supposed to be a website which is servicing more than just the primary author, we need to think about how we construct messages so that they appear more clearly to those searching on google for questions that match their own. If I am looking for a solution for question X, I want to find someone who had the same problem, not their short autobiography and formalities before getting to that actual question.<< Again, editing autobiographies and pitiful attempts at rumor is totally fine. Editing out "thanks" however changes the tone of the post, and the tone of the site in general. When reading a question, it is important to keep in mind that there is a human on the other hand. Having salutations and thanks in there helps convey this.

sirtaptap 14y ago

Taking "thanks" out of a conversation between exactly two people is very different. It's very personal and can easily be seen as rude. But SO isn't that; don't treat it like that. SO questions may well be read by thousands of people. The "thanks" is useless to 99% of them. It's like signatures. Sure it seems neat when you do it once. But when literally thousands of people have to read it on thousands of posts...please stop!

bangbang 14y ago
When someone takes the time to help me with a problem. I will thank them. SO is powered by people and people appreciate appreciation.
- Pfhreak 14y ago
  And the mechanism for appreciation on Stack Overflow is not thanks. It's +1 votes and selected answers. Those appreciate mechanisms drive the site and ensure the person who helped you helps many other people.
  - gte910h 14y ago
    And there is no reason to remove that social lubrication because you're of a different opinion. If they're not doing the +1 and selected answer, then tell them to, but don't stop them from being decent human beings as well, even if you'd prefer the world that way.
- 3JPLW 14y ago
  I give my thanks through comments. I think that makes sense given their model -- the question and answer are the straightforward facts about the problem intended for future googlers and posterity. The comments are little meta-data intended for the asker and answerers.
- finnw 14y ago
  If someone posts a helpful answer to your question, it's fine to say "thanks" in a comment (and the mods will not remove that.)