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Yes, I'm a woman posting about my own experience as well as the experiences of my female friends who I could in no way describe as skewing particularly sexually
by Spivak 2y ago
Yes, I'm a woman posting about my own experience as well as the experiences of my female friends who I could in no way describe as skewing particularly sexually deviant. They all pretty much consider themselves "vanilla" and yet this article would have you believe that they're deeply depraved for wanting to be "taken," choked, dominated, or receive some light degradation.
These things are so normal
that they're not even considered to separate from sex, they're just what you happen to be into— on the level of preferring specific positions.
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- grvdrm 2y agoInteresting to hear this. And thank you for that open view. And, yeah, my personal experience lines up somewhat with what you said as well as some stories I hear about other folks. Lot of it sounded like people finding - among the many possibilities - ways to change things and have fun and experiment.