A friend lamented in 2016 "If I vote for X I'll lose my friends. If I vote for Y I'll upset my family." I reminded the voter of the secret ballot and the abili

A friend lamented in 2016 "If I vote for X I'll lose my friends. If I vote for Y I'll upset my family." I reminded the voter of the secret ballot and the ability to just lie. "Tell them what you think they want to hear", was my advice