Even worse, when *those same people* finally figure out that there aren't many trans people in the first place, rather than thinking "oh should be easy to accom

Even worse, when *those same people* finally figure out that there aren't many trans people in the first place, rather than thinking "oh should be easy to accommodate, then", they instead say "exactly, so we shouldn't have to care about them. They should just go away / be quiet / stop asking 'the whole world' to change for them." At the end of the day, everything is just an excuse for people like that to either: - hate - not do any internal searching that will reveal they're the ones that need to change - continue to hide in their self-hating shame (see: gay porn viewing rates in places with wildly lower, admitted-LGBTQ+ people)