I am not on meds—my dad is on Adderall but has had some pretty serious side effects so I've been avoiding it for now. Mostly it's changed my attitude towards m

I am not on meds—my dad is on Adderall but has had some pretty serious side effects so I've been avoiding it for now. Mostly it's changed my attitude towards myself. I'm naturally a strong perfectionist, which doesn't combine well with ADHD. That has historically led to me constantly beating myself up when I do anything wrong, ruminating over conversations for days to figure out what I should have said differently, and generally being anxious and depressed. After receiving the diagnosis, I've been able to separate "me" from "my ADHD", which has helped me stop kicking myself while I'm down, which in turn has actually increased my ability to stay functional because I don't get into anxious/depressed spirals.