> or is it just more of a western mentality Where do you get the idea that "have kids and treat them as a side thought" is a Western mentality? In the West, we

> or is it just more of a western mentality Where do you get the idea that "have kids and treat them as a side thought" is a Western mentality? In the West, we usually use prophylactics to avoid kids until we want them. That's why the birth rate is so low.