Hard to give good answers without knowing real details. I think reading conflicting perspectives from HN based on guesses and biases we apply to what you wrote

Hard to give good answers without knowing real details. I think reading conflicting perspectives from HN based on guesses and biases we apply to what you wrote will likely be frustrating for you as well. Feel free to contact directly using contact info in profile. Can redirect you to a good coach as well if that is appropriate.