I tend to find it's causing things even if I'm trying to avoid essentializing it, and this also goes for side effects of medications for it. eg relationship ad

I tend to find it's causing things even if I'm trying to avoid essentializing it, and this also goes for side effects of medications for it. eg relationship advice says you shouldn't "change your personality" for your partner, but in my last relationship both of ours changed quite a lot when our medication changed or even if we hadn't taken it that day, so I don't really feel attached to it.