If you are responsible for taking care of others, keep in mind that the way you act will stick with them this was the biggest motivator for me to change my beh

If you are responsible for taking care of others, keep in mind that the way you act will stick with them this was the biggest motivator for me to change my behavior. when i saw my kids doing things i didn't like, i realized that i was doing the same, and that they were most likely learning it from me, or if it wasn't me then i wasn't doing enough to model a better behavior. the challenge is that many of these behaviors did not come out until i had kids. when you learn something from your parents, very often you don't get to apply that without kids, so you are not even aware that you would act like that until you are in the same situation with your kids.