> I, and most people I know just flat out don't believe that you can transition into being a woman as a man or vice versa. I think I see where you're coming f

> I, and most people I know just flat out don't believe that you can transition into being a woman as a man or vice versa. I think I see where you're coming from. To be fair, I don't think many people actually believe in a magic fairy who turns men into women or vice versa. But : In the playground, have you never looked at some kid at a distance, squinted, and gone 'I wonder if they're a girl or a boy, it's hard to tell'? I know I've had that experience myself back in the '80s, before there was this much debate.