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Being uncomfortable != being unsafe. It's not wrong to feel uncomfortable around, say, drug users or homeless people. And it's valid to complain about that! But
by ARandumGuy 2y ago
Being uncomfortable != being unsafe. It's not wrong to feel uncomfortable around, say, drug users or homeless people. And it's valid to complain about that! But that does not mean you're actually unsafe, and conflating that just isn't helpful.
- bko 2y agoI don't know, I feel kind of unsafe around drug users. People feel unsafe around people that don't abide by social norms for good reason. For instance, if someone is playing loud music on a subway, that goes against social norms. What other social norms does he refuse to follow? The social norms of personal space perhaps? A pretty high correlation there based on my experience. That's why everyone pretends that nothing is wrong and very few choose the ask this person to be respectful. And when they do, it often leads to violent confrontation. Also drugs are dangerous. I really don't want to see someone die, pass out, fall or vomit on me. It's kind of bizarre I have to make this point.