My wife says the same thing. It must be a loss aversion response to their choice of mate. Reactions I receive (since I'm currently churning through the decisio

My wife says the same thing. It must be a loss aversion response to their choice of mate. Reactions I receive (since I'm currently churning through the decision) tend to be offers for funding support, some of it not insignificant. To me, that is a much higher confidence indicator, although I have will some skin in the game, too.