I'm about as INTJ as they come, and the phrase that has saved my relationship is "Please let me have 2 minutes to think about this". My wife knows me well enoug

I'm about as INTJ as they come, and the phrase that has saved my relationship is "Please let me have 2 minutes to think about this". My wife knows me well enough by now to know that I'm not trying to get out of anything, that I really need a moment to ponder the situation.