There's a dutch phrase I hear often, like "Wat je zegt ben jezelf, met je kop door de helft" Whatever you say about someone else, you're saying about yourself.

There's a dutch phrase I hear often, like "Wat je zegt ben jezelf, met je kop door de helft" Whatever you say about someone else, you're saying about yourself. It's an idiom, so the translation is a bit funky.