Way to only assume a happy path scenario. My last partner was in the process of a second divorce. One of my family members has been through 3 divorces. Unpaid

Way to only assume a happy path scenario. My last partner was in the process of a second divorce. One of my family members has been through 3 divorces. Unpaid child support abound, which he'll never pay. Honestly I'm just happy to have a place to live, and a great career. First girlfriend dumped me right after I got fired. I do wonder, hypothetically she met me a few months later when I was doing much better. We marry. We attend church. Our kids are bilingual in Korean and English with hints of a South Central dialect. But that's just a fantasy. Just as easily we could be divorced, no kids and I'm just paying alimony. I guess if VR gets advanced enough in time I can plug into an ultra realistic version of the Sims...