I wouldn't be embarrassed. I'd be embarrassed on their behalf, maybe, for half-assing it so badly. I don't owe anybody who calls me out of the blue my time, es

I wouldn't be embarrassed. I'd be embarrassed on their behalf, maybe, for half-assing it so badly. I don't owe anybody who calls me out of the blue my time, especially when their shit isn't together. My mom answers the phone and actually talks to these people, and politely says "no thank you", whereas I don't even pick up the phone for certain area codes, and certainly don't engage in conversation if it's clear it's some bullshit I do not care about.