Health, Family, Career - pick 2 This is a false trilemma for only a privileged few. If you have unusually healthy genes, an unusually supportive family, or an

Health, Family, Career - pick 2 This is a false trilemma for only a privileged few. If you have unusually healthy genes, an unusually supportive family, or an unusually cushy job, consider yourself lucky! Both men and women need to make the same tough decisions to find balance in their life -- it's not a gender thing.