> "The all that is expected of women is far more encompassing." The article isn't about how much women do or how high expectations are for them. Truly the mor

> "The all that is expected of women is far more encompassing." The article isn't about how much women do or how high expectations are for them. Truly the more-present parent, regardless of gender, has a more serious parenting load. The article is about the social expectations for fathers. To put it in more clear terms: Society expects X from mothers. Society expects Y from fathers. The article is not about a comparison between X and Y in any way. It's not about whether X ~= Y. It's not about whether X > Y or whether X >> Y. It's not about whether any of those comparisons being true might be fair or accurate or desirable. The article is about society's expectation that Y ~= 0 and acts surprised as all hell whenever Y > 0. And how that is bad, shameful and insulting.