It's written into the story line of some stories like the mystery solving ones. But in the story lines, the affections seem very mutual. So I'm not sure it's f

It's written into the story line of some stories like the mystery solving ones. But in the story lines, the affections seem very mutual. So I'm not sure it's fair to call him a "harasser". Dirty? Perhaps. Old man? Yes, that's chronological and it can't be denied.