To follow your analogy. Your employer changes the terms, you refuse. Then a judge jails you for non payment of child support. What would be insane is if you

To follow your analogy. Your employer changes the terms, you refuse. Then a judge jails you for non payment of child support. What would be insane is if you turn around and blame the employer for going to jail. It wasn't the employer that put you in jail, they just helped keep you out of it for awhile but then decided they weren't happy with the continued arrangement.