My analogy would be - Normal matter is like expected personal space in Finland. Everyone maintains a respectful distance, and they like it that way. Sometimes

My analogy would be - Normal matter is like expected personal space in Finland. Everyone maintains a respectful distance, and they like it that way. Sometimes no one sees another human up close for days, let alone actually does anything resembling ‘touch’. Neutron stars are like a giant coked up swinger orgy pile. Sometimes you can’t even tell where one person begins, and the next one ends, and certainly no one cares much anyway.