> with no effort I want effort, lot's of it, but let's not nitpick ... Off the top of my head: Nobel Prize winning, world-beneficial research; lots of loving,

> with no effort I want effort, lot's of it, but let's not nitpick ... Off the top of my head: Nobel Prize winning, world-beneficial research; lots of loving, open, deeply connected relationships; grow rapidly; be someone people turn to for support (because I help them), ... I already do at least one of those things. :)