Yeah, this was sort of the crux of the paradox that make it hard to explain, you want to challenge your assumptions, but you want to detach yourself from your e

Yeah, this was sort of the crux of the paradox that make it hard to explain, you want to challenge your assumptions, but you want to detach yourself from your ego's' need to be right, so not challenge them too much. This is sort of like the "Don't be so open minded your brain falls out" thing, or maybe the opposite of that.