it's interesting that you use the word "adult" here. my father was also a violent narcissist, and appearance was the most important thing. he too would invent c

it's interesting that you use the word "adult" here. my father was also a violent narcissist, and appearance was the most important thing. he too would invent causes to be offended about when reason wasn't sufficient to crush somebody. I'm very familiar with the kind of adult you're referring to.