It's online dating. Most of the women in the pool are either using it out of boredom or are dating non-monogamously, and that doesn't work out for most guys. I

It's online dating. Most of the women in the pool are either using it out of boredom or are dating non-monogamously, and that doesn't work out for most guys. I think a lot of women use it as a hookup app but women often take their time and are more cautious when trying to hook up. Women who aren't just looking for a hook-up often filter out because they meet a lot of guys who just want that.