Are we planning to coexist with aliens or do we colonize them? We struggle to get along with ourselves. We struggle to visit the moon. We can't even survive

Are we planning to coexist with aliens or do we colonize them? We struggle to get along with ourselves. We struggle to visit the moon. We can't even survive in a controlled simulation of another planet. We are already dying out in reference to replacement rates in most countries workers and consumers vs retired etc... It is not even clear that we are anywhere near passing the phase of wars with one another. If another species exists that manages to get all the way here the decision regarding what happens will be entirely up to them in my opinion.