Try to remember the pain you feel is a reflection of how much you love and miss the people and animals who were once in your life. Don't try to deal with it in

Try to remember the pain you feel is a reflection of how much you love and miss the people and animals who were once in your life. Don't try to deal with it in the sense of trying to minimising the pain, but learn to appreciate that pain. The crying is painful, but it's the right response. You're crying because you had someone wonderful in your life who you love and miss. Of course you should be grieving, if you weren't they wouldn't have mattered. These days I tend to think my experience in this world is a little too weird and little too statistically improbable. I don't know what that means, but I tend to think this isn't base reality and that there's a lot we don't understand about why we're here, or why anything is for that matter. So while I'm not religious, I keep an open mind about what's possible and the reality of my experiences. Is world state necessarily irrecoverable, or is something keeping daily backup? Is my existence as linear as my experience? And is my experience even necessarily linear? I don't know and no one really knows these things. I like to think there's at least some chance I'll get to see people and animals I love again... The unknowns help me a little.