In my experience people's ideas of "offensive" is all over the map. However, peoples treatment towards accusation of being offensive are all treated equally. i.

In my experience people's ideas of "offensive" is all over the map. However, peoples treatment towards accusation of being offensive are all treated equally. i.e. punishment for offending is a binary function of accusation, not a function of the actual offense. It's this mismatch which has contributed heavily towards society's whiplash over the last decade.