I think Recurse Center did a great job on these. A lot of documents like this leave a lot to interpretation, and some of that is unavoidable, but I think this

I think Recurse Center did a great job on these. A lot of documents like this leave a lot to interpretation, and some of that is unavoidable, but I think this document does about as good a job as you can of making bad behaviors easy to recognize and avoid. I also attended a Recurse talk, and they prefaced the Q&A with a rule I found helpful: >Before you ask your question, think about whether it's a real question or just something you want to say in front of the speaker. If it's just something you want to say, approach the speaker afterwards and tell them privately, and reserve the questions for things other people might want to ask as well.