>And I felt bad, as though I've suppressed her natural self and ability to be excited about such a thing. She's now pacified to live in my world. > An irration

>And I felt bad, as though I've suppressed her natural self and ability to be excited about such a thing. She's now pacified to live in my world. > An irrational feeling, because she's now at much less risk of being run over by a vehicle, but it was a feeling nonetheless. I think this respects my position and my intent. You're being a pragmatist, giving her the best life possible. Speaking to changing her nature and protecting her. They might not be in harmony but they both suggest thoughtful, considerate reasoning. And it's okay if they aren't in harmony; a future understanding might reconcile them.